This is a generation of selfies and hashtags, where a picture is no longer clicked for memories but to get maximum likes on Facebook and Instagram, where a child doesn't think how to expand his knowledge for the purpose of educational advancements but for recognition in social media like facebook, we're all spoiled brats waiting to splurge our father's hard earned money for all the wrong reasons, spending on girlfriend, all sorts of addiciton, demanding useless things to be purchased, just because you know he can afford it doesn't mean he has to. People belonging from the rich section of the society has a different lifestyle altogether compared to any middle class obviousy, but subjected to pressure, a middle class will cope up much easier and deal with it without complaining whereas the rich who had a altogether different upbringing and lavish lifestyle will have a hard time adjusting. The fact I'm making clear is that if you have a tough childhood your adulthood will seem easier, the problems you face won't really feel like problems you'll have more strength and courage to deal with it with ease, you'll know when to stop spending and how to save. However saving too much sometimes can be boring you need to spend to do the things you love, you need to spend on yourself equally as you spent on others say wife. When life is low try to focus on what you have instead of complaining what you don't, because when you concentrate on the things you have you find happiness, but when you complain you make things harder for yourself and frustration gets the better of you. When you want something really bad but can't have it because the circumstances and situation doesn't favour you, try to look on the brighter side of life say you like this girl who is way out of your league and the kind of person you're is no where near to what she wants in a guy, don't focus on this instead focus on your job how you can get promoted or keep yourself busy and active. When we have a lot of spare time we tend to think of the things we don't have and how we can have it. Well like I described your looks doesn't matter what matters is how you carry yourself but when trying to win over a girl who wants to roam with her boyfriend in fancy cars, will go night clubs every now and then, and someone who can pick her up and drop her home everytime she wants to, then you know this girl is a real waste of time, she is a receiver not a giver, she has no way to charm others than her looks and is constantly looking to be attracted by preety boys, it's better not to fall for this kind of women with looks because you can't attract a person by your looks for the rest of your life, that's gay and really unproductive and cheap in every manner. She wants her prince charming to look good at all times like the ones in fairy tales, but sorry miss beauty with no brain, this is not how the world works. Sometimes outer beauty, no matter how abundant, cannot mask the ugliness you try to hide inside. So never declare a girl beautiful on the basis of looks, what matters is what lies underneath is what defines the person. If you believe you had a poor upbringing, a wasted childhood do not feel bad because of it as it's not your fault but if you continue to believe in that pattern of living then definetely that's your fault. Your life has to keep going up like a rocket. You cannot let poor aerospace engineers design your rocket because you need assurance that you'll reach your given destination. Same way you need to surround yourself with positive minds, people that make you feel good and the ones who tell you what you can do and not what can't be done by you. The problem with our generation is that too many people knows what can't be done by them not what can be. It's all because of being the victim of poor parenting and having gloomy and fatalistic friends, surrounding oneself around pessimisitc people because of all this the end result is low self-esteem and confidence. Insecurity and hesitation gets the better of us. The kind of friends we have, the TV channels we watch, the jokes we laugh at, how we dress, how we react, how we face problems, how we accept responsibily for our mistakes, defines who we are. It's really important how our subconscious mind works which is trained over the years of our daily life, being positive doesn't only mean thinking positive but automatically appearing positive by optimistic thoughts, subconscious mind plays a huge role in it as you can't control your subconscious mind, that's why it's important that you be good for a long period of time. The man you choose to be during your early adulthood is the man you be for the rest of your life. Its very important you start acting smart from an early age say 20's. And by smart I mean actually taking life seriously and not letting go by the ups and downs. We should learn how to move on faster not how not to get hurt because that's impossible, you have to get hurt. So bottomline is by having great personality you become great individual. To some extent personality is genetic, and this may be hard to believe but it's true. Some percentage of our personality is genetic. If you believe in evolution then you must have an implicit belief that genes influence who we are. For example if your grandfather smokes as well as your father then there is a chance of you smoking as well. If that can be genetic so can be personality. If evolution has taught mankind anything, it is that survival means passing on the fittest of our genes to the next generation. That's why in school we often hear from our teachers that you represent your parents, the way you behave speaks a lot about your parents too. However that is not totally correct, friends and surronding enviornment is responsible for your behaviour. Parents matters obviously since they do the teaching part at home. Never let someone else make you feel less, what actually matters is being smart and thoughtful, so when you're having your trip taken, instead of losing your head, try to respond it with a sarcasm, if not either walk away or just laugh at his level of thinking and say "I don't blame you", trust me that'll help. But sometimes people try to bring others down for reasons associated with jealousy, self recognition and poor self-esteem. That's his problem not yours, remember there is a thing called karma. Every dog has it's day, so relax, breath and let them do whatever the fuck they are doing. When they try to bring you down you just know you live a better lifestyle than them. So it's all in the state of your mind, its not really the problem that matters as much as your attitude towards the problem. You're the captain of your own mind, master of your own soul.
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