One of the worst feeling one can possibly have is thinking of himself ugly. Your looks doesn't matter as much as your personality does, it's all in the state of mind and how you carry yourself. Presenting oneself with the right choice of words can pull off more easily than trying to win over by your looks, because once you're already a couple and been one for a decade, it's your personality and the way you carry yourself is what matters, all those interesting things you do for your other half, will charm your other half more than anything. you can't win over her by your looks then, because after a certain stage of your relationship you don't care about appearence that much as you would care about ones way with words, thoughts and the confidence he places. Because at that time that's all it matters, then again after another decade you wouldn't need "intercourse" either. Yes, that's right, after somewhere 45-50 years of age, the urge to have sex dies, it's no more something fun, it's like just another thing which you got bored of doing again and again....
And this not only applies in love but also in reality with everyone, obviously your looks doesn't make you stand out in life, what does is your knowledge and your achievements. So what's important in life is being thoughtful, generous and practical. If someone ever snubs you off or disgraces you and make you feel like less, don't ever buy it. The only limitation that the human mind has is the one that it creates itself, it's own boundary created by no one but itself. When your dealing with a prominent person, when talking to him, give him all the respect he deserves stay calm and relax at all times, no matter what the discussion is about. The calmer you appear the more confident you look, admit to you flaws but never even for one minute make him feel so superior that you're actually very thankful for his presence and meeting him has been one of the best things in your life, NO never do that, it kills the expectations of your so called prominent individual, what that person expects out of you. Now when I say prominent person I don't mean any politician or celebrity but someone like your boss or teacher, Never be afraid to speak your mind, as long as you have good thoughts and talk about the obvious, you have a good perception. When your talking to someone superior to you never get nervous. You have to appear as confident as you can and think that the other person should get nervous of you, you can't allow yourself to look nervous and tensed, because when you show that, you reveal that you're weak and openly invite the other person to dominate. Keep your head and chin up, look in the eyes and speak with confidence, have power in your voice and appear gentle.
And this not only applies in love but also in reality with everyone, obviously your looks doesn't make you stand out in life, what does is your knowledge and your achievements. So what's important in life is being thoughtful, generous and practical. If someone ever snubs you off or disgraces you and make you feel like less, don't ever buy it. The only limitation that the human mind has is the one that it creates itself, it's own boundary created by no one but itself. When your dealing with a prominent person, when talking to him, give him all the respect he deserves stay calm and relax at all times, no matter what the discussion is about. The calmer you appear the more confident you look, admit to you flaws but never even for one minute make him feel so superior that you're actually very thankful for his presence and meeting him has been one of the best things in your life, NO never do that, it kills the expectations of your so called prominent individual, what that person expects out of you. Now when I say prominent person I don't mean any politician or celebrity but someone like your boss or teacher, Never be afraid to speak your mind, as long as you have good thoughts and talk about the obvious, you have a good perception. When your talking to someone superior to you never get nervous. You have to appear as confident as you can and think that the other person should get nervous of you, you can't allow yourself to look nervous and tensed, because when you show that, you reveal that you're weak and openly invite the other person to dominate. Keep your head and chin up, look in the eyes and speak with confidence, have power in your voice and appear gentle.
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